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I am a 42-year-old woman. For most of my life, maintaining a stable weight hasnt been a problem. I exercise five days a week and generally eat healthy. My routine didnt change, but since I turned 40, Ive gained about 10 pounds a year. Ive tried everything but cant lose that weight unless I exercise every single day and keep to a very strict diet and eat the bare minimum of calories. Once I go back to my regular eating patterns, the weight comes back. I dont have any underlying medical conditions; my doctor says its just a slower metabolism that comes with age. I have tried every diet under the sun, every exercise, hired a trainer, done a prescription weight loss programnothing works. I was initially quite depressed about it, but I have recently come to the conclusion that this is me now, and I would rather live my life and be happy than miserable and dieting. The same exact thing happened to my mom around my age, so I suspect it may be hereditary.

The problem is my fianc. He is on me constantly to lose weight. I have explained the situation to him several times and even brought him to the doctors office with me. I keep food diaries. I know I am not overeating, but he is the kind of man that can give up chocolate for a week and lose 10 pounds. He does not understand. He frequently pulls up pictures from when we first met and says how nice I looked. I understand that I have put on 30 pounds since we started dating, he has every right to be upset, but I just dont think I can do what it takes to get back to being 30 pounds lighter. Should I be miserable and lose the weight to make him happy, or should I leave and find someone who will accept me as is?

No More Yo-Yo

It sounds like you already know the answer to your own question based on the way youve phrased it to me in the last line of your letter. Frankly, even if you didnt find someone else, I think being secure and happy on your own would be an improvement over a guy who constantly shoves old photos under your nose to remind you how disappointed he is in your metabolism and mere five-workouts-a-week regimen. I dont even agree that hes got a right to be upset with you for gaining weight, entering your 40s, and/or declining to make your dress size the No. 1 priority in your life, to the exclusion of any sense of moderation and pleasure. Once you reject the idea that he has every right to be angry with you for having a body that cant run solely on self-denial and punishment, I think the idea of leaving a man who makes you miserable will suddenly feel a lot more achievable.

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Dear Prudence,

I moved to a new country a few years ago and struggled to make new friends. Most of my friends here are white, while Im Black African, and we often struggle to find common ground. There have been difficult moments where someones touched my hair without permission or invited me to all-white events where Ive felt ignored and othered. In each case, Id bring up the issue carefully, and the women would apologize and promise to be more sensitive. Im now pregnant. My friends have been helpful and provided lots of advice and support. Some have even given me old maternity clothes, baby clothes, high chairs, and a crib mattress. But in more than a few instances, these hand-me-downs were damaged or badly stained. This has left me feeling torn between gratitude for their generosity and anger for what seems like a lack of consideration.

What should I do? I dont make nearly as much money as these women and have struggled to find full-time employment since I moved here. Im glad to be getting so many items that I would normally be unable to afford. But Im upset at what looks like another instance of my friends cluelessness. Is this a cultural thing Im being overly sensitive about? Or should I say something and risk another awkward conversation, where I will likely end up downplaying my feelings and soothing them so they dont feel bad about themselves? These women are otherwise sweet and are even planning a baby shower for me, so I dont want to risk alienating them.

Insensitive or Racist?

I dont know what country youre in now or what culture these white women belong to that might possibly provide useful context for the state of these hand-me-downs, so I wont try to speak to that. But you have every right to reject damaged or unusable gifts. Its one thing to accept a few slightly worn onesies and another to be expected to let your baby sleep on a torn, stained mattress. That doesnt mean you have to sign up for another draining round of explaining benevolent racism to your friends if you dont want to, especially if you worry it will end in another round of reassuring them that no, you dont think theyre bad people, that they had the absolute best of intentions, and and so on, ad infinitum.

All you have to do is let each gifter know that you appreciated her thoughtfulness but unfortunately wont be able to use the item because when you got home you realized it was damaged (or torn or stained), and would they like to have it back or would they prefer you just got rid of it for them? This doesnt offer them something to deny or argue about with you; its a simple statement of fact that their gift is unusable, while also offering them the polite cover of Im sure you had no ideaI didnt notice myself until I opened it up at home. If even that sounds like more effort than youd like to extend, you can just quietly get rid of whatever you cant use and make a list of what you still need for whoevers throwing the baby shower for you. I do hope youre able to lean on your extended social network, far away as they may be right now, so that you have at least some emotional support to fall back on if things with this particular group of women grow too fraught. And keep in mind that you are entitled to discuss your feelings about racism with them at any point. But if you decide youd rather preserve your energy for something else, or dont trust them to respond honestly and nondefensively, youre allowed to take a step back. Its not a question of being excessively or insufficiently sensitive. Its a question of how much you want to invest in these relationships and when you need to conserve your emotional resources.

Dear Prudence,

My roommate Claire originally seemed like a great fit, but it quickly turned into a mini-nightmare, from the relatively minor (left her dishes in the sink for days) to real problems (was a neglectful pet owner). I tried to resolve these issues multiple times, with no results. Finally, I mentioned the pet problems to our landlord, who said Claire needed to remove the animal from the premises. Claire packed up and moved to her parents within three days.

In the week since, Ive noticed that some of my cookware is missing. She denies taking it, but in the past she has bragged about shoplifting. Also, where else could a bunch of pans have gone? Im a grad student, and I could replace my cookware, but it would definitely hurt my budget. Meanwhile, the electric bill was in her name, and Im thinking about withholding the money it would cost to replace whats missing from what I repay her for the bill. Were talking about $50. It would be hard for either one of us to stomach but isnt going to make either of us homeless. Should I suck it up and pay her, or is it reasonable to withhold the money?

Roommate From Hell

The most important thing is to get the electric bill transferred to you or to open a new one at the same address in your name, if thats possible. As long as youre living somewhere that she can potentially get the electricity shut off due to nonpayment or vindictiveness or indifference, its best not to unnecessarily antagonize her. If you already have that sorted out or believe you can do so without her cooperation, and you want to let her know youre withholding your share of the electric bill to cover the cooking equipment she took with her, go for it. You dont have to phrase it as a question or something she needs to deny or admit to, just as a matter-of-fact transaction that balances out your shared expenses. The odds shes going to take you to small court over $50 is small, but thats something you should also take into consideration. If you think shed be willing to dig her heels in and make your life difficult over that $50, it might be easier to just swallow the expense and consider yourself well rid of her.

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My husband and I split up last year, and we have joint legal custody of our 13- and 15-year-old daughters. When theyre at their dads house, he lets them watch TV shows I believe are inappropriate for them:Sex and the City,Mindhunter, andGame of Thrones. He refuses to discuss this with me. What are my options?

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My Fianc Keeps Showing Me Old Photos to Remind Me of My Weight Gain - Slate

If you frequent your nearby gym on a normal basis and are looking for a fun, innovative way to stay moving while at home, there are a lot of ways to find an incentive. So many brands and even some personal trainers are offering free, digital workouts via Zoom or Instagram Live. Still, if you benefit from a little extra push when it comes to completing your workouts, you should look into HealthyWage.

Essentially, HealthyWage is a program that gives you the opportunity to win money throughout your fitness journey. You submit a HealthyWager about yourself, which includes how much weight you want to lose, how many months you hope to do it in, and how much money you want to bet per month. There's a handy calculator on the site that you can use to see how much money you can potentially win.

If you're successful in reaching your goal, you'll be sent money via PayPal or check. There is a verification process to make sure you did lose the weight before they send you your prize which includes having a rep from HealthyWage watch you weigh in or uploading a video to a secured portal online. Also, before starting your fitness experience you do have to pay to get into the program. The largest prize you can win is dependent on how much money you dish out first.

HealthyWage requires you to lose a minimum of 10% of your starting weight.

The program uses a unique algorithm to determine how much money you get at the end of your journey. Things like weight, BMI, the amount you bet, the amount of time it took, and the time of year are all aspects that are included in the final calculation. You can also refer friends to increase your prize amount by $40 per person.

Yes, you can. HealthyWage encourages people to do team challenges as a way to motivate each other and keep one another accountable. Currently, you can sign up for the $10,000 team challenge with a team of five people (you can also get matched up with a team, if you want). This challenge goes from April 27 to July 20, and the team with the greatest percent weight loss can win $10,000.

If this program seems like something up your alley, you can read more about the ins and outs of HealthyWage here. If it's not really your thing, remember there's no pressure to be productive or get in the best shape of your life while in quarantine. You do you!

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Community-based weight loss programme targeting overweight Chinese adults with pre-diabetes: study protocol of a randomised controlled trial.

BMJ Open. 2020 Apr 08;10(4):e035196

Authors: Ho M, Chau PH, Yu EYT, Ying MT, Lam CLK

AbstractINTRODUCTION: Type 2 diabetes mellitus (T2DM) is one of the worlds fastest growing health problems. Asians have a strong ethnic predisposition for T2DM, developing T2DM at a lower degree of obesity and at younger ages than other ethnic groups. T2DM has a gradual onset, with most individuals progressing through a pre-diabetic state, providing an opportunity to prevent T2DM and its complications. This study aims to evaluate the effectiveness of a community-based lifestyle intervention programme on weight loss and improvements in insulin sensitivity and cardiometabolic profiles in Chinese adults with pre-diabetes.METHODS AND ANALYSIS: This study is a 12-month, assessor-blinded randomised controlled trial. Adults with pre-diabetes (aged 40-64 years, n=180) with pre-diabetes are randomised into either an intervention group (receiving group-based lifestyle interventions) or a control group (receiving text messages containing health information). The intervention programme targets a weight loss of 5% during the first 6 months by restricting caloric intake and increasing physical activity. Participants in the intervention group will attend six group sessions and two individual face-to-face diet counselling sessions during the first 6 months, followed by monthly telephone support during the 6-month maintenance phase. Participants in the control group will receive monthly text messages containing general health information only. The primary outcome is weight loss (%). Secondary outcomes include insulin sensitivity (assessed using fasting insulin level and homeostatic model assessment of insulin resistance), glycaemic control (assessed using glycated haemoglobin level), lipid profile, blood pressure, carotid artery thickness, dietary intake and level of physical activity. Intention-to-treat analysis will be conducted using a generalised linear mixed effects model with a logit link and linear mixed models.ETHICS AND DISSEMINATION: This study has been approved by the relevant research ethics committee. The results will be disseminated through peer-reviewed journals and scientific presentations.TRIAL REGISTRATION NUMBER: NCT03609697.

PMID: 32273317 [PubMed in process]

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Just like their younger counterparts, people who have reached a certain age also strive to lose weight. Some for medical reasons and others for being able to keep fit and healthy. However, it might be a little difficult to lose weight once you reach the age of 50. Lowered metabolism, a drop in hormone and conditions like menopause in women of this age all contribute to making weight loss a difficult journey as you grow older. It also risks certain nutritional deficiencies that may lead to other health complications further on in life.Here are six tips you can follow to make the journey of weight loss after 50, safer and healthier.Concentrate on metabolismThe bodys metabolism is the rate at which it can burn fats. The slower your metabolism, the more time it will take to burn fat. It is said that the bodys metabolism slows down by 2% every decade after you turn 20. Given this, you have to be consistent in your weight loss journey to see results. Here are a few ways you can accelerate your metabolism. Drinking cold water is known to increase your metabolism. Room temperature, on the other hand, does not amp up your rate of metabolism It is advisable to choose to stand rather than sit whenever possible Green tea is a good antioxidant and also increases your metabolism Adding zinc to your diet is a good way to amp up your metabolic rate. Oysters, red meat and poultry are good sources of zinc

Keep a track on your dietAs you grow older, your level of activity during the day reduces. Given this, you need to take extra care of your diet. Here are a few tips to help you watch what you eat in a day.

It might be a good idea to practice intermittent fasting. It keeps your metabolism up and gives your gut much needed rest. It also keeps a check on your insulin levels leaving you more active. Increase the amount of protein you consume. It helps in your metabolism and is also necessary for the upkeep of your muscles thus saving you from muscle degeneration which commonly begins at this age. Eat vegetables before you eat carb-rich foods. Vegetables make you feel fuller, reducing the number of carbohydrates you have. It is important for you to have a balanced diet so that you leave out no essential nutrients. Nutrient deficiencies are common at this age, which can lead to other complications at later stages.

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A WOMAN who lost half her body weight in eight months in a bid to get pregnant was left needing therapy, because she hated being thin.

Five foot tall hairdresser Zebe Voicu, of Redbridge, East London, was told she wouldnt be able to conceive when she ballooned to 15 stone and a size 20 - after eating giant portions of chicken kebabs and chips every night.

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The 34-year-old turned to junk food after failing to become pregnant with husband Adi, 38, but her GP said she'd need to lose weight if she wanted to become a mum.

Zebe decided to get a gastric sleeve but her BMI wasn't high enough for an NHS op, so she flew to Romania and paid 6,500 to have three quarters of her stomach surgically removed.

Over the next eight months, she shed seven-and-a-half stone but was left wishing she was still fat.

Speaking exclusively to Fabulous, Zebe said: "I went from a size 20 down to size 4 and didnt even recognise myself. I couldnt connect who I saw in the mirror with who I was now.

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"Id cry to my husband and say I wanted to get fat again because I preferred the way I looked before.

"I loved being a size 20 as it fitted my personality. I was so bubbly and chatty being bigger and I lost all that after the operation.

"I only agreed to have the operation so that I could lose weight and have a baby. But that didnt happen so I wondered why Id put myself through all that pain."

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Zebe started having therapy to come to terms with her new look and failing to conceive.

She saw a counsellor once-a-week for 18 months, before finally accepting the person she saw in the mirror.

When people see me now they tell me I have a body to die for, but they don't know everything I've been through

She said: "Its only now after a year-and-a-half of therapy that I have learnt to like how I look.

"I can see the benefit of losing weight even if I havent managed to get pregnant."

Pregnancy and obesity: the facts

If you have a BMI of 30 or above before becoming pregnant, you are medically classed as obese.

Being obese reduces your body's natural ability to ovulate and may lower your chances of getting pregnant through treatment like IVF.

If you do fall pregnant, obesity increases your chances of gestational diabetes three-fold, as well as your risk of miscarriage, high blood pressure, pre-eclampsia, post-partum haemorrhage and having a baby weighing more than 4kg.

It can increase your baby's risk of being born prematurely, stillborn or with a condition like spina bifida.

You are also more likely to need intervention during childbirth - including forceps, ventouse delivery or a C-section.

But it's not safe to try and lose weight while pregnant, instead focus on eating healthily and doing exercise like swimming and walking.

You should ideally try to lose weight before falling pregnant.

Zebe, who has six sisters and three brothers, had always wanted a large family of her own, and vowed to start trying as soon as she married Adi aged 21.

She was a slim size 10 but, as each month passed without falling pregnant, she began comfort-eating - piling on 5st in a year.

She said: "I was turning to food to fill me emotionally as I was devastated at the thought of not having a baby or being a mother."

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After continuously trying for a baby for over a year, Zebe was told she was infertile due to her size, and that her only chance of becoming pregnant would be to drastically lose weight and change her lifestyle.

But even though she was classified as clinically obese by her GP, she didnt qualify for a gastic sleeve operation on the NHS as her BMI was 38 - two below the necessary 40.

Instead she flew to a private clinic in Constanta, Romania, in 2017, and had 75 percent of her stomach removed, including the area which produces the hormone that stimulates hunger.

After the surgery, Zebe saw the weight drop off, losing a stone every month.

In the salon, we always had biscuits lying around to give to clients and I could easily eat ten in one minute

"I was shocked," she said. "I was determined to lose weight but I never thought Id lose that much that quickly.

"I guessed Id lose a couple of pounds at first, so I wasnt mentally prepared to see myself change so much.

"When Id lost half my body weight I couldnt even recognise myself anymore. It wasnt just the way I looked, it was my personality, too.

"After the operation I was miserable all the time. Having therapy helped me to manage my emotions as I accepted the new, thin me."

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Working 13-hour days as a hairdresser, Zebe would gorge on biscuits all day, before scoffing a takeaway for three for dinner.

She said: "Id never have breakfast. I'd just snack on tea and biscuits throughout the day.

"In the salon, we always had biscuits lying around to give to clients and I could easily eat ten in one minute.

"My favourite were chocolate digestives and the Lotus caramelised biscuits.

When she got home, Zebe would order a takeaway of chicken kebab and chips meant to serve three people - and eat the whole thing.

But after her op, she could only drink liquids for three weeks, followed by food mashed into paste for a further three weeks.

Zebe's diet

BEFORE

Breakfast: Packet of chocolate digestive or Lotus caramelised biscuits which she grazed on throughout the day

Lunch: More biscuits

Dinner: Takeaway kebab and chips - enough for three people

Snacks: Fried food and chocolate

AFTER

Breakfast: Two poached eggs with half a sausage or smoked salmon and two Ryvitas

Lunch: Salad with grilled chicken or fish

Chicken noodle soup

Meatball soup with carrot and potato

Greek salad without olive oil or olives

Dinner: Stew made with dumplings

Chicken and vegetables

Avoids: Anything fried

Now she can stomach three meals-a-day, but they must only weigh 250g each.

She said: "I have to be really strict and measure everything out. For breakfast I have two poached eggs with two pieces of Ryvita or poached eggs and smoked salmon.

"For lunch, I love to have salads with grilled chicken, or fish and soups with carrot and potato, or chicken and noodles.

"For dinner, I cook a stew with lots of vegetables and chicken. I can eat anything thats cooked in the oven, grilled or boiled, but nothing cooked in a frying pan."

She never feels hungry and is showered with compliments, but Zebe is still desperate for a baby.

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Doctors havent found a reason why she cant conceive, so the couple are still trying.

"When people see me now they tell me I have a body to die for," she said, "but they dont know everything that Ive been through over the past three years.

"Its taken me a while to come to terms with my new body and not being a mother. I dont know if it will ever happen but Im finally happy in my own skin."

We previously reported on a woman who was fat-shamed by her date - but got her revenge by losing 5 stone and rejecting him.

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While there are several workout regimes and ample of diets out there which guarantee you weight loss, this weight loss trick requires you to do nothing. All you need to do is record what you eat during the day. Yes, you read that right, tracking every single thing you eat during the day could actually help you shed weight. A new study published in the journal Obesity had about 150 people track what they ate for six months as part of a weight-loss program. By the end, those who lost the most weight had spent just under 15 minutes a day on average logging their intake. Their motto: "Write it when you bite it." Another study conducted by researchers at the University of Vermont and the University of South Carolina, found those who lost 10% of their body weight (the most successful of the bunch) spent an average of 23.2 minutes recording their intake every day during the first month of the program. Recording their intake meant "recording the calories and fat for all foods and beverages they consumed, as well as the portion sizes and the preparation methods," according to the study. What is the trick? It is the self-monitoring which makes the difference and not the time spent recording it. Once you start recording your daily food habits, you will start eating consciously. You will avoid junk and processed food. By implementing this habit, you can also put an end to the unnecessary snacking you do during the whole day. All you need to do is take 15 minutes out during the whole day and pen it down. You can divide the time during the whole day to record your food intake. For example- You can spend 5 minutes after breakfast, lunch and dinner each to record your intake. This will help you keep a regular check on what you eat and make you a more conscious eater. You must also include 30 minutes of exercise in your daily routine which will help you lose your weight faster. Inculcating a regular workout routine along with the above given tracking tip will help you shed those kilos in no time.

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90 Day Fianc's Jorge Nava admitted that the attention he received from his weight loss helped aid in the demise between him and his wife Anfisa Nava. The couple was said to have had problems before he started his jail sentence but the change in looks clinched the breakup.

Season 4's90 Day FianccoupleJorge and Anfisa wereTLCScouple thatfewcould resist watching as they had fights that included hitting and keying of cars. Thecouple originally metthrough Facebook like many other couples, and after Russian-born Anfisa moved to the states - with the help of the K-1 or fianc visa - was able to marry Jorge and become a legal US citizen. Last year, Jorge was arrested for having 293pounds of marijuana in his car in Arizona. He was arrested in February of 2018 after being charged with possession of drugs with the intention to sell and wassentenced to spend two-and-a-half years behind bars.

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Even though Anfisa has moved on publicly with a new man, Jorge could not care less. The reality star reached out to In Touch to express that he only wish Leo Assaf all the luck with his ex-wife. Sadly, Jorge did confess that Anfisa did not have the guts to tell him personally that she had moved on but had been learning bits of information from his family and the tabloids. The prisoner doesnt know a lot of intelligence on the new beau only that he exists but not what he looks like.

Surprisingly though Jorge is keeping calm and moving on as he is not worried about being compared to the new man in Anfisas life. She seems to have a type though as she went from a drug dealer to a strip club manager. Jorge did spill the tea about how Anfisa became jealous of his 128-pound weight loss as he began to receive more attention. The healthier lifestyle evidently caused a fallout between the odd couple. At the time of his arrest, Jorge was overweight and unhappy but after almost three years behind bars, he has finally reached a healthier and happier mindset.

Fans of the TLC star do not believe he should let Anfisas resentment derail himfrom all the hard work he did to get to his new weight. Jorge revealed that his ex-wife also blocked his phone calls so he could not call from jail once she saw the pictures from March 2020. As for Anfisa, she seems absolutely fine with the outcome, but many fans have pointed out that Leo looks older and uglier than Jorge. Hopefully, Jorge can put his revenge body to the test to really get under Anfisas skin.

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REACHING into a multipack of crisps for a cheeky snack might be the norm for a lot of us at home right now.

But when Kaitlin Liney was on her 42nd packet of the week, and midnight takeaways were a regular meal, she knew her eating was out of control.

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A visit to her GP confirmed her worst fears, Kaitlin then aged 20, 20st 2lb and a size 24 was on the verge of a heart attack.

Shocked into action, she swapped crisps for healthier snacks and joined a gym, losing more than 9st.

She says: Its crazy to think about how many packets of crisps I used to get through I was definitely addicted.

I would feel permanently starving and food was my weakness especially cheese and onion Walkers crisps.

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One packet was never enough, especially if I was feeling emotional or stressed.Sweets, takeaways, chocolate and biscuits were also my downfall.

Now Im really regimented and I try not to eat alone, so I can stay in check.

Kaitlin, 22, who studies animal management at Riseholme College in Lincoln, was overweight as a child and weighed 18st at age 15.

I was so stressed out I ate to hide my emotions

She says: I was always known as the big child. Even in primary school I was bigger than the other kids.

But it was during GCSEs that my eating got out of control. I was so stressed out I ate to hide my emotions.

When Id binge a whole multipack of crisps it would give me momentary relief, but that soon wore off.

I adored chocolate digestives and big bars of Dairy Milk and Galaxy. But afterwards Id feel rubbish.

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I hid my insecurity about my weight with my outgoing personality but deep down I hated it.

It wasnt until Kaitlin went for a routine check-up with her GP in June 2018 that she realised she had to change.

She says: When I stepped on the scales, it said 20st 2lb. It was a huge shock.

I was told I was morbidly obese and at high risk of a heart attack, diabetes and more it was a huge wake-up call.

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Kaitlin confided in her mum, Rachel Liney, 45, a carer, and stepdad, Darren Liney, 55, an agricultural engineer.

She says: My mum was lovely but honest, too, and agreed I needed to sort my weight out.

Two weeks later, Kaitlin started Slimming World and joined a gym near her home in Lincoln.

She says: It was really daunting going to exercise. But my friend came with me, which helped.

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At first I just did light cardio. As I got fitter I joined some classes.

I really loved it. Id hoped to lose 2st in six months, but lost over five, taking me down to 15st.

Kaitlin also forced herself to give up the takeaways and multipacks of crisps.

She says: I swapped crisps for apples whenever I had a craving. Sometimes the cravings were so strong Id be having a fight with myself in my head.

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It took Kaitlin 18 months to lose 9st and she is a healthy 11st weight.

She says: When I saw Id reached my target weight, I screamed.

"I feel so much better about myself.

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90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days alum Cortney Reardanz talks about the struggles she faced with weight in her childhood. Cortney says that shes had a tough time with her weight and bullying. Read on to hear the full story and to see some before and after pictures.

90 Day Fiance celeb Cortney Reardanz revealed that she struggled with weight alot as a child in in her teens. She shared some photos from her earlier days when she was over weight. Cortney said that she hesitated about sharing these images, as weight and self-esteem is a lifelong struggle for her.

The90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days star says she gained more confidence in college. She definitely feels more confident in her own skin now. However, Cortney Reardanz does admit that she still has some self-esteem issues creep into her life at times.

Some fans noticed that this90 Day Fiance star looks quite different nowadays when compared to a few years ago. Theres speculation that shes had her nose and gums done, but all Cortney admits to (as far as cosmetic procedures goes) is getting Botox and laser hair removal.

90 Day Fiance fans will remember that at the end of her season on Before the 90 Days, Cortney Reardanz hoped to continue her relationship with Spanish boyfriend Antonio Millon. However, in What Now?, Antonio is in New York for a business trip and cant find the time to meet her. Disappointed, Cortney ends up splitting with him, saying shell find an American man instead.

Cortney Reardanz later revealed she found a new man and was very happy with him, with things still civil with her ex. That relationship was short-lived, and she was also spotted last year with another cast member, Ricky Reyes. He wouldnt answer directly about whether or not the two were dating, so youll have to keep an eye out to see if theyre featured on any spin-offs.

Cortneys usually focused on doing what she loves the most: traveling. Shes been to over 40 countries, and she plans on visiting more.

Of course, with the pandemic now, the 90 Day Fiance alum has to stay put. But once this all blows over, you can bet that Cortney Reardanz will be back to her globetrotting ways.

Shes also one of the featured members on the new quarantine spin-off, so make sure you tune in.

Keep checking back on Soap Dirt for all the latest info on your favorite90 Day Fiance cast members.

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Summer is here and it's time we indulge in foods and drinks that soothe our stomach. Kokum is one such ingredient which can provide us relief in summers.Sun-dried kokum is often used as a souring agent or as an additive in foods.Kokum possesses amazing coolant properties and is perfect for digestion. It can also aid in weight loss by controlling the cholesterol level.Let's take a look atthe health benefits of kokum sharbat.Alcohol Withdrawal Management During COVID-19 Pandemic: Struggling to Find Liquor During Lockdown? Here's How to Deal With Withdrawal Symptoms.

Kokum is native to the Western Ghats of India.This is the reason why kokum can mostly be found in cuisines from Gujarat, Maharashtra and coastal states of Southern India. The fruit is tiny round in shape and dark purple in colour. It has a sweet, tangy taste which is used to enhance the flavour of many dishes. It is also used as an ingredient in the preparation of a famous drink called Sol Kadhi that's made with a coconut cream base.

Kokum Sharbat Health Benefits

1. Aids in Weight Loss -The kokum peel consists of anthocyanins, garcinol, and hydroxycitric acid. These compounds help suppress appetite, increase energy and boost the metabolism that results in weight loss.

2. Good For Immune System:Kokum is loaded with antioxidants like anthocyanins,a class of flavonoids that helps fight against free radicals present in the body. This in turn prevents oxidative stress, thereby, strengthening the immune system.

3. Ensure Smooth Digestion:In summer, people usually face problems like acidity, indigestion, etc. Drinking Kokum sharbat can keep your stomach cool and ensure smooth functioning of bowel movement.

4. Possess Antifungal Property:Kokum sharbat can help prevent infection due to its antifungal property. The fruit can also be used as a preservative.

5. Powerhouse of Nutrients:Kokum is packed withessential nutrients and vitamins like malic acid, citric acid and carbs. It has a healthy mixture of B-Vitamins and contains ascorbic acid, manganese, potassium, dietary fibre and garcinol which prove to be highly beneficial for a pregnant woman.

Therefore, you should consider drinking this summer coolant during the afternoon after lunch as it can help in the smooth functioning of your body. Kokum sharbat can also help you achieve smooth skin as its anti-ageing properties help in the repair and regeneration of cells.

(This article is written for an informative purpose and should not be substituted for medical advice. Kindly consult your doctor before trying any tips.)

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